Well, people, long time no press! And this is my fresh press today! Last Saturday, April 7, 2012, my relationship with my girl is officially 3 years. It is the first anniversary that we had together because these times we usually separated by distance.
What did I expect from this long time relationship? Of course a longer and eternal one. Well, I have to admit that I want this lasts forever. But people, the road to it will never be easy. It may be blocked with a big boulder, blocked by a group of crossing animals, or even in an extreme condition, the path is separated and you’ll have to walk it alone and meet again later. But people, that’s life.
We as human, have to learn to accept also to welcome the pain and to let it go, so those pain may come and go in peace. In relationship, we must have done so many beautiful and great things together, when there is a problem, should we only see the problem and forget the amazing moments that we shared together? I don’t think so.
What should everyone do is accept. You may want to change things, but it require both of you to change so that you’ll be a better couple. You may have done something wrong, never forget to say sorry and apologize. You may feel so hurt, never forget to forgive soon. You may be angry, but not to make the relationship broken. It is just a feeling to express how sad you are then back again to happy feelings that you both can share.
People, trust me. You may don’t understand this at all. But the key is that when you read this, and then you had some problem with your partner, never forget the happy moments you’ve been shared together that made you stay as this long. One more thing, you may see some flaw and never break thousands or even billions of goodness you’ve done because that flaw. 🙂